So, how's life at school?

[SkittleMonkey]

Now, see, I don't really wanna make anyone feel bad or anything here. But the way it sounds, Tonya, is that you didn't know him very well in the first place. Even if this guy didn't have a girlfriend, don't you think it would have been better to become close friends with him first?

Now grant it, I've never had a boyfriend or been on a real date before(and I don't plan to), but I picture that things like that would be a lot less awkward if you get to know the person better. I've said that I haven't ever had a boyfriend, but my older brothers have had girlfriends, and I can tell you from watching them that starting a relationship with a person you barely know always ends up going down the tubes anyway.

So, next time, when you feel you like someone, I suggest maybe getting to know them. Maybe try to bring up the subject of dating in casual conversation, so you can avoid embarassment just in case they DO have a girlfriend already. Sorry if I made you feel bad. This is just what I think, and I don't expect you to listen to me. After all, I've never actually dated to know these things. o__O;

Other than that, it sounds to me like he was leading you on on purpose. I mean, he DID say he liked you, as you said that in an earlier post.

Why would he say that when he KNOWS he has a girlfriend? Either that or he got a girlfriend after he said that, which still doesn't make any sense to me because for him to lose his likeness for you so fast makes him sound like a jerk(no offence). Or maybe he just felt left out because he didn't have a girlfriend, so the easiest way to solve the problem was to find any willing participant(That's what my brother did.). There's also the possibility that he wasn't being truthful when he said he liked you, which I wouldn't really consider, if he was constantly smiling and staring at you(That's abnormal behavior. You said he was sneaking glances at you, and I'm puuretty sure he wouldn't try doing that to guys.). Maybe when he said he liked you, he just meant that he wanted to be your friend. That's another possibility. Wow, now my brain hurts... I'd better stop here for fear of getting brick'd. *ducks out of sight*