Yeah it does kinda suck, especially for the people who have just recently joined in the game. Remember, though, this is a game aimed at kids, particularly young kids, as it isn't too complicated, and very easy to acheive things. I have two young ones that absolutely LOVE the game, because it's something "they" can do (without Mom doing it for them). Most other games on CN are above their game-playing skill level.
If you haven't already, make sure you read the Tutorial in Notey, and check out Sparky's awesome
Guide of the game and all it's features. That should help answer any questions you may still have about the game.
Enjoy!
~Vicks