So, how's life at school?

[SkittleMonkey]

Okay, this happened yesterday, but it was still really funny. I was in health class with my friends, and we were watching a movie on the development of a baby inside the womb. There were hints toward some...um, embarassing stuff, and I was cracking up at it 'cause I thought it was HILARIOUS; I turn to my friend Brian, and he's beet red! What's so funny about it is that he's usually the type of person to shrug off and ignore that kind of stuff, but it actually embarassed him this time. PRICELESS. I wish I had a photo!

[Partymember]

haha, i remember that video. I LMAO at it.

[Partymember]

yeah...snowday

[Tonya]

It was AWFUL yesterday....

Okay, so Lacey (she's mine and Zack's friend) for two days she tries to see if Zack would ask me out to the dance, but he'd always just smile that shy smile and never give a straight answer. So yesterday in Homeroom, after passing notes around and whispering about going out to the dance, later on she walks up to me and tells me she's sorry, she JUST found out he already had a girlfriend and that he wasin't taking me out. So, I sit there for a few soconds telling myself "You're strong. Don't ever let a guy ake you cry." Well then I start sobbing . I couldin't help it! And while I was crying Shinky and one of his buddies start snickering and saying stuff like "crybaby" and "Boo hoo hoo" and all that. Not that I cared. All I was upset about was Zack. A few girls came up to me and asked if I was okay. I asked a girl to ask Zack that if he had a girlfriend then why did he always smile at me, brush past my desk, and sneek looks at me all year long.
Well, he makes this jerk kind of a face and says "I never smilesd at her!".
Later that day in Art class I get called down to the office to talk to Ms. Chatman, the school counseler. She said that just before I came in, the Homeroom teacher brought Zack in to talk about what happened with me. She said that Zack felt bad about what happened and he was sorry for misleading me into thinking he liked me like that. She said that he's just a nice boy and that he'd smile at me just the same as he'd smile at me or anybody. And THAT was what my day was like.
My friends at least made me feel better . Jason, (he's the one I might have mentioned before about us sorta holding hands in the lunchline a while back) he was going toward the water fountain and one of his buddies looks at me and says "Man, why do you have to be so ugly!" So Jason spins around and punches him in the stomach real hard, knocking him almost into the locker. I laughed! And later that day he poked me and smiled to make me smile ;.D.
But yeah, I don't think anyone on here's gonna hear anymore about Zack for a while.

[SkittleMonkey]

Now, see, I don't really wanna make anyone feel bad or anything here. But the way it sounds, Tonya, is that you didn't know him very well in the first place. Even if this guy didn't have a girlfriend, don't you think it would have been better to become close friends with him first?

Now grant it, I've never had a boyfriend or been on a real date before(and I don't plan to), but I picture that things like that would be a lot less awkward if you get to know the person better. I've said that I haven't ever had a boyfriend, but my older brothers have had girlfriends, and I can tell you from watching them that starting a relationship with a person you barely know always ends up going down the tubes anyway.

So, next time, when you feel you like someone, I suggest maybe getting to know them. Maybe try to bring up the subject of dating in casual conversation, so you can avoid embarassment just in case they DO have a girlfriend already. Sorry if I made you feel bad. This is just what I think, and I don't expect you to listen to me. After all, I've never actually dated to know these things. o__O;

Other than that, it sounds to me like he was leading you on on purpose. I mean, he DID say he liked you, as you said that in an earlier post.

Why would he say that when he KNOWS he has a girlfriend? Either that or he got a girlfriend after he said that, which still doesn't make any sense to me because for him to lose his likeness for you so fast makes him sound like a jerk(no offence). Or maybe he just felt left out because he didn't have a girlfriend, so the easiest way to solve the problem was to find any willing participant(That's what my brother did.). There's also the possibility that he wasn't being truthful when he said he liked you, which I wouldn't really consider, if he was constantly smiling and staring at you(That's abnormal behavior. You said he was sneaking glances at you, and I'm puuretty sure he wouldn't try doing that to guys.). Maybe when he said he liked you, he just meant that he wanted to be your friend. That's another possibility. Wow, now my brain hurts... I'd better stop here for fear of getting brick'd. *ducks out of sight*

[Tonya]

Sorry I haven't wrote in a while. And yes, SkittleMonkey, you were right about eveything you said. I wasin't offended at all. I didin't know him very well. I was waaaayyy too shy to talk to him that much anyways. But I'm honestly very much over it now. I guess one of the big reasons why I cried was because the whole thing was such a....so all of the suddon a ....unexpected thing. But oh well. I certainly don't hate him. I do have a forgiving heart you know .
Yeah, Jason is a pretty nice guy to be one of Shinky's buddies. Uhh...did I tell you guys he was one of Shinky's "bruthas"..... And ONLY because he's one of Shinky's buddies I'm not going to abmit that I maaay have a small, microscopic crush on him..... ! But atleast we started out as friends. At the beginning of the year when we shared desks in Science class, we were eachothers science buds. He's really goofy, easy to crack-up and kid with, and when I tease him sometimes he acts like he's mad but he's not because, once again, that's how he is.