Thanks guys, you've really been a big help. Sad to say though things have escalated and gone into more seriously bad issues. Turns out my brother's main issue with my lifestyle was he felt I was some baby clinging to his parents and not going out and meeting more people or doing more stuff like he did.
He argued with my parents, screaming at them and at times at me until like 2 am and it got so bad he actually left the house and we had to call the cops to make sure he made it to a friends house safe and sound. Today, he's still in a mood and my parents are making all kinds of precautions to keep him out.
They feel he really needs to cool off and we feel he's gonna try and stay at his friends place for days and I really hate to see this. My brother and I can get into seriously ugly ass arguments but I don't want him to be like this. My dependency on my parents isn't part of some weakness where I can't live on my own.
Unlike my brother, I have a very good relationship with my parents and they talk to me and support me instead of how my brother thinks I am like stapling myself to them and leeching off them. My parents have done more for me then I ever thought a parent could do and for that, I share everything with them.
Either way, I hate seeing my brother like this and I seriously honest to god, pray on a stack of bibles that he gets a reality check and comes back and ends this stupid crap. He hurt me but I don't want to lose him either.
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