[Cassini90125]

Originally Posted by pitbulllady

I've spent the better part of the last 20 years looking for that someone, and if he's out there, he's living at the bottom of the ocean under a rock or something! Take it from somebody who's played that game, it is NOT easy finding that "perfect somebody", IF they even exist at all! It's all nice and sweet to believe that they're out there, somewhere, and it's all a matter of time before Fate brings you together, but one look at the divorce rates, coupled with enough time and experience, will usually burst that bubble. I KNOW from experience how hard it is to find somebody, and I've since given up the search. Frankie's case is gonna be even tougher than mine, since she lives at home with her grandmother and has a job which not only is demanding, but extremely unique. Sure, there are plenty of guys who will claim that they understand and can deal with it, but as the old saying goes, when the going gets tough, the tough get going! Been There, Done THAT, so I know just how empty those promises can be, and what a difficult task Frankie would have in finding someone who really MEANS what they say, and won't back down from their promises.

pitbulllady

I trust you'll understand if I'm feeling more than a little insulted. Given the opportunity, I can and will gladly do everything you said above about Wilt for the right woman. As far as I'm concerned, Frankie is that woman. I understand what you're saying, as I've been looking just as long as you and have also given up the search, but your experiences have nothing to do with me, and you have no right to make such assumptions about me or anyone else. I know what kind of a man I am, I know what I'm capable of and what's in my heart, and I say to you, put me in that house with all those crazy, messy Imaginary Friends and the woman I love. You may deliver your apology to our grandchildren.