Thanks everyone. I didn't want anyone to feel guilty, I just didn't want word to spread out of control.
CN went ahead and took the photo down. It looks like it was an oversight. There are so many hundreds of people working at Turner, not everybody gets the information they need and I'm sure somebody just went "aaaw, that's a cute shot. Let's put that on the press site!" I don't think anybody went "Screw Craig and Lauren! We're puttng this up!" Except for this one mistake, the folks at CN have kept everything we asked them under wraps. Nothing in the commercials or the synopses.
So I guess I was overreacting when I blamed CN.
Thanks again you guys! -lauren